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Old 11-07-2004, 06:33 PM   #31
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Re: I'm 13, and this is my definition of love...

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I agree with the abscence growing fonder 100%...

And I know it's a parents fear but sex is the last thing on my mind...and i dunno how lol

All I wanna do is hang out w/ her and see her smile and help her with her life and all this other stuff that is unexplainable

puppy love. enjoy it while it lasts.



also, i gotta make this clear: puppy love is a GREAT thing. Just realize that puppies can fuck too.
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    "I'm a puppy for your love"
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    Old 11-07-2004, 06:34 PM   #33
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    also, i gotta make this clear: puppy love is a GREAT thing. Just realize that puppies can fuck too.


    love goddamn sure ain't what it's cracked up to be. remember that, too.
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    Old 11-07-2004, 06:37 PM   #34
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    love goddamn sure ain't what it's cracked up to be. remember that, too.
    so true. it's like getting those candy packages, with the stick that you dip into the sugar, with three different tasting sugars. you always realized that it was too much work for the payoff (unless you're getting great booty...then...it's like a good snickers bar).
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    Old 11-07-2004, 06:38 PM   #35
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    And I know it's a parents fear but sex is the last thing on my mind...and i dunno how lol
    yeah, in 9th grade, sex wasn't really on my mind as in "sex w/ a girl"...more like "porn!" but it comes...all in time.
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    Old 11-07-2004, 06:47 PM   #36
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    Parents don't want their kids growing up too quickly. Don't let anyone tell you how you should feel or think.
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    Old 11-07-2004, 07:00 PM   #37
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    Don't let anyone tell you how you should feel or think.


    Justin...you seem like you understand relationships and love better than a lot of my friends who are twice your age. Trust your heart and you'll be fine.
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    Old 11-07-2004, 07:01 PM   #38
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    well, as has been stated, you can't define love. When I was in 8th grade...and 9th grade, there was this one girl who I was convinced I was in love with. 5 years later, I realize it was just a crush/ "in like". it's life, and I don't doubt that you have feelings for her, but honestly, you're taking life too seriously for a 13 year old. I promise you, you will regret it if you start thinking like this with every girl you date. It's a horrible road to go down, and, if you won't listen to any parental units, take it from me: I wasted 9th-11th grade in love with this one girl, and when I finally dated her, she was NOTHING like I thought. I thought I was in love, but had really built up a mental "perfect woman", to which she couldn't live up to.

    And, with you guys being "restricted"....well, absense makes the heart grow fonder. And sometimes, makes you fall "in love"...


    I believe you can be in love with someone no matter what age you are. But make sure you don't get love confused with obsession. Remember 1 Cor. 14:4-7 this is the best definition of love out there. If you love this girl you should realize she's got a lot of life ahead of her. She shouldn't be worrying about a boy that she's in love with just like you shouldn't worry about a girl that you're in love with. You've got a long way to go in life. You should also respect her mother and her father just like she should and remember that they know a lot more about love than she does. Remember she may not be talking to her parents every day about how much she loves them. You have to look for love in the right places like your family, and not another person who may be just as confused as you.
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    Old 11-07-2004, 07:07 PM   #39
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    hahahahahhaha...


    BAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHHAHAHHHAHAHAHA

    13? love?


    hahahahhahahahah


    no
    that pretty much sums it up.
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    Old 11-07-2004, 07:10 PM   #40
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    Love is a strong unconditional benevolence, a will to strive to do anything you can to make sure this other person is always happy, and an extreme joy when you are with this person or talking to this person.

    If the above is true, why are my girlfriend's parents not letting us talk to each other everyday or go on dates?

    By the way, my girlfriend's dad heard her say "I love you" to me over the phone and he got mad and told her we can't talk to each other alot anymore.

    I know 13 year olds can be in love, but I need other people's input on this. I'm furshimmelled :


    BAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHA HAHAHAHAHAHAHA

    For fucks sake dude, you're 13. You still be masturbating whenever you can and when you're not doing that playing video games with your friends. or wiffle ball, or shit kids do.

    You got the rest of your life to love, there's no sense in wasting it on a girl when you're only 13 dude.

    normally, you'd tell someone to grow up. but i'm going to tell you to grow down.

    enjoy the young life dude.
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    Old 11-07-2004, 07:16 PM   #41
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    change that 1 Cor. 14:4-7 to 1 Cor. 13:4-7
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    Old 11-07-2004, 07:19 PM   #42
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    Hmmm, by the time you're in high school you probably wont even remember her name.
    Be 13.
    love the avatar
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    Old 11-07-2004, 07:20 PM   #43
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    "I'm a puppy for your love"
    people like you should be shot.
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    change that 1 Cor. 14:4-7 to 1 Cor. 13:4-7

    happy birthday two days ago.
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    Old 11-07-2004, 07:21 PM   #45
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    people like you should be shot.

    dave quote. i think he was being sarcastic.
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    Old 11-07-2004, 07:21 PM   #46
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    happy birthday two days ago.
    thanks, I feel older, maybe this is why I'm giving advice
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    Old 11-07-2004, 07:22 PM   #47
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    thanks, I feel older, maybe this is why I'm giving advice
    yeah..i'm 18 and i feel old compared to that youngster.
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    Old 11-07-2004, 07:23 PM   #48
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    To me love is still being there after the butterflies are gone.

    And Oh yeah Pablo Neruda's Love Sonnet defines love too. http://www.cs.rice.edu/~ssiyer/minstrels/poems/422.html
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    Old 11-07-2004, 07:24 PM   #49
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    i'm 23.

    i'm your daddy.
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    Old 11-07-2004, 07:25 PM   #50
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    yeah..i'm 18 and i feel old compared to that youngster.
    well, that move from 19-20 really felt like a jolt. I've never felt old before. I really don't like this feeling. It was sort of like the first time I got a c on my report card lol
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    Old 11-07-2004, 07:28 PM   #51
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    That was funny but c'mon I cant ask my parents about it...I need input from other big people and I wanna know if my definition was anywhere close to how you ppl feel about your S.O.
    Why cant you ask your parents?
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    justinandimcool,

    i'm almost 30 and i can tell you that in all likelihood you're probably not in love, but keep in mind everything is relative. the older people on here are telling you you're not and that's only because we have been where you are and have grown to see what love really is. in other words, it seems real to you because you have nothing else to compare it to. have fun while you're young but don't take things to seriously and you'll look back at this and laugh in about seven years or so.

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    love is an evil invention created by women to restrict men from having sex with multiple partners.

    cheers.
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    Why cant you ask your parents?
    it's a thing with guys. talking to your mom about love is just...weird. and talking to your dad...is like running in circles.
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    people like you should be shot.
    Damn, does nobody remember Julie anymore?
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    love is an evil invention created by women to restrict men from having sex with multiple partners.

    cheers.
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    so cool.
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    Damn, does nobody remember Julie anymore?

    ahaha...sorry, that went over my head. she's a hottie. : : :
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    Old 11-07-2004, 07:32 PM   #58
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    Thanks guys for more opinions.

    To the people telling me to grow down: I feel happy the way I am

    And I can't ask my parents because they wouldn't want to know that their son is in love.
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    So there are some that agree that 13 year olds can be in love?

    I just wish her parents knew that...It's torture to keep people who are in love away from each other no matter what age....now I have a taste of it

    i remember being in your shoes, but im a hopeless romantic and fall in love on a quite frequent basis...

    good luck, and dont be down, your whole life is ahead of you and im only 10 years older than you, i have to tell myself the same thing!
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    Love is a strong unconditional benevolence, a will to strive to do anything you can to make sure this other person is always happy, and an extreme joy when you are with this person or talking to this person.

    If the above is true, why are my girlfriend's parents not letting us talk to each other everyday or go on dates?

    By the way, my girlfriend's dad heard her say "I love you" to me over the phone and he got mad and told her we can't talk to each other alot anymore.

    I know 13 year olds can be in love, but I need other people's input on this. I'm furshimmelled :
    back away, not today. i was you when i was 13 and boy did it get ugly. have fun, play the field and dont be dropping L-bombs out there no matter what you feel. take it or leave but ive walked more than a mile in your shoes my friend.
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