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Old 11-09-2017, 01:39 PM   #31
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If it’s in the workplace it’s a different story but it wasn’t.
“It was something that I knew was wrong,” said the woman, who described sitting in Louis C.K.’s office while he masturbated in his desk chair during a workday, other colleagues just outside the door.
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    So, some guy can masterbate in front of your girlfriend and you would shrug it off as he's just a dirty man?


    Only if it’s not at the work place.
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    Old 11-09-2017, 01:40 PM   #33
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    Only if it’s not at the work place.
    I'm sure she will be pleased to know the "guidelines".
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    Old 11-09-2017, 01:40 PM   #34
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    I mean, who HASN'T asked if they could jerk off in front of a female?
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    Old 11-09-2017, 01:41 PM   #35
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    And that makes him a pervert.

    Harassment is persistent and and unwanted sexual advances with threats of repercussions.

    To be fair, it sounds like he asked politely, never restrained or held them against their will, and didn’t hold anything over their heads career wise or anything.
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    Old 11-09-2017, 01:41 PM   #36
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    No, leave out the last bolded part, it's not necessary to be considered harassment.

    Are you trying to be like someone else that got another thread locked?
    “Often” with threats of reprocussions is more accurate, yes.

    No, I’m not sure what is going on when I state my opinion, say why, and am accused of trolling.

    Everything isn’t harassment is my point. A TSA agent asking for a phone number isnt harassment (though I’d be fine if they had a time not to do it).

    CK admitted he was a perv. Yes he crossed the line of decent behavior, that’s what a perv does.

    Did he sexually harass these women? I’m not sure. That is what I asked.
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    Old 11-09-2017, 01:42 PM   #37
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    As long as you're shooting your load into a potted plant, is it really that big of a deal?
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    Old 11-09-2017, 01:42 PM   #38
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    Re: Sexual Abuse/Harassment Thread

    I may be a prude but I would file pulling your dick out and masturbating in front of a woman without her consent under sexual harassment.
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    Old 11-09-2017, 01:43 PM   #39
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    So, some guy can masterbate in front of your girlfriend and you would shrug it off as he's just a dirty man?
    That sounds like indecent exposure and I’m sure she wouldn’t sit there sand watch.

    Is indecent exposure sexual harassment?
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    I️ swear C2S came to this website with the goal of being the dumbest person on the internet.
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    Old 11-09-2017, 01:44 PM   #41
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    “It was something that I knew was wrong,” said the woman, who described sitting in Louis C.K.’s office while he masturbated in his desk chair during a workday, other colleagues just outside the door.
    This is creating a hostile workplace for sure.
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    Old 11-09-2017, 01:44 PM   #42
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    At least he was nice enough to ask before doing it, right?!
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    Old 11-09-2017, 01:45 PM   #43
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    Creating a hostile workplace. JFC dude.
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    Does it have to be my work place? Or just anyone’s work place? Asking for a friend but please answer before I️ leave this WaWa.
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    I may be a prude but I would file pulling your dick out and masturbating in front of a woman without her consent under sexual harassment.
    I honestly belied the charge would be indecent exposure
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    Oh God.... did you eat all this acid!

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    That sounds like indecent exposure and I’m sure she wouldn’t sit there sand watch.

    Is indecent exposure sexual harassment?
    Yes. You're the one appending other meanings to it. It is an unwanted sexual advance. Full stop.
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    I honestly belied the charge would be indecent exposure
    Why don't you go try and report back to us.
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    Old 11-09-2017, 01:47 PM   #49
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    At least he was nice enough to ask before doing it, right?!
    There is something to be said for this. At least he wasn’t rude on top of it all.

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    Creating a hostile workplace. JFC dude.
    Words matter and I’m pretty sure these are the right ones.
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    Sexual harassment doesn't have to have anything to do with where it's done, who it's done to, or if there is a threat of consequences.

    Does that help?
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    Why don't you go try and report back to us.
    No, this isnt my style.
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    Old 11-09-2017, 01:49 PM   #52
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    That sounds like indecent exposure and I’m sure she wouldn’t sit there sand watch.

    Is indecent exposure sexual harassment?

    How bout you do some quick googles of this subject?
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    That sounds like indecent exposure and I’m sure she wouldn’t sit there sand watch.

    Is indecent exposure sexual harassment?
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    That sounds like indecent exposure and I’m sure she wouldn’t sit there sand watch.

    Is indecent exposure sexual harassment?
    yes

    can't believe this is difficult
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    Sexual harassment doesn't have to have anything to do with where it's done, who it's done to, or if there is a threat of consequences.

    Does that help?
    No, but it does usually have an element of persistence or repetitiveness to it.
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    Not trying to lessen what occurred to these people, but why all of sudden all of these accusers coming out?
    And people giving them praise for being "brave" for telling their story......many many many years later. Doesnt make sense to me.

    Also amazing how the left and the right are covering this in completely different ways. Its very telling.
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    No, but it does usually have an element of persistence or repetitiveness to it.
    Not following this....you mean the accused doing it over and over to different victims?
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    Should get locked anytime now.
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    No, but it does usually have an element of persistence or repetitiveness to it.
    So if a guy grabs my ass, but it only happened one time, that's not sexual harassment to you?
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    Old 11-09-2017, 01:52 PM   #60
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    Re: Sexual Abuse/Harassment Thread

    Things I've learned on ants today:

    1) It's not pedophilia if she's 14
    2) "JFC" is slanderous to christ
    3) Masturbating in front of a co-worker isn't harassment

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