Dating is miserable

[UTTAD83]

Haha I love that you guys talk about how crazy you are as much as we do. At least you guys realize it. It's always funny talking to a chick who tries to defend women being crazy. There is no excuse for craziness!

[Nick@Night]

Girls are dumb.

[dmbgodagirl41]

Originally Posted by UTTAD83

Haha I love that you guys talk about how crazy you are as much as we do. At least you guys realize it. It's always funny talking to a chick who tries to defend women being crazy. There is no excuse for craziness!

To be fair, a lot of the crazy comes from guys approaching chicks like they do other dudes. Can't do that.

Like you with the "I keep plowing her, I don't get why she's getting attached!"

Because we are all Mt. Insane, about to spew molten crazy all over everyone, that's why.

[Nick@Night]

My cousin told me the other day she was so glad that it seemed I was finally appearing happy with things and I was back to my old self again. She says it's because I have been living with her the past 4+ months. Get rid of the crazy, get the happy back.

[dmbgodagirl41]

Originally Posted by Nick@Night

My cousin told me the other day she was so glad that it seemed I was finally appearing happy with things and I was back to my old self again. She says it's because I have been living with her the past 4+ months. Get rid of the crazy, get the happy back.

Plus, if she makes food like that lasagna, I'd be happier than I dunno what.
I'd agree with that. Plus, you also got to have a wicked fun trip to Chicago to really kick off the "F crazies".

[UTTAD83]

Originally Posted by dmbgodagirl41

To be fair, a lot of the crazy comes from guys approaching chicks like they do other dudes. Can't do that.

Like you with the "I keep plowing her, I don't get why she's getting attached!"

Because we are all Mt. Insane, about to spew molten crazy all over everyone, that's why.

I only did it 3 times. Maybe 4. Seriously this whole thing lasted not even 4 weeks. You can't tell me that you want the exact same thing and than freak out when nothing develops.

[UTTAD83]

Originally Posted by Nick@Night

My cousin told me the other day she was so glad that it seemed I was finally appearing happy with things and I was back to my old self again. She says it's because I have been living with her the past 4+ months. Get rid of the crazy, get the happy back.

I've been told the same thing by all my friends. I keep hearing "It's nice to have you back finally" and it really hit me that I was a completely unhappy and different person in my last relationship. Crazy is no good. For anyone.

[Nick@Night]

Originally Posted by dmbgodagirl41

Plus, if she makes food like that lasagna, I'd be happier than I dunno what.
I'd agree with that. Plus, you also got to have a wicked fun trip to Chicago to really kick off the "F crazies".

Besides spending 12+ hours in the same car with you, the Chicago trip a good time. More from a standpoint of "See, everyone, I do exist in real life". My favorite was still (I don't remember her name), "Are you really an asshole?"

Originally Posted by UTTAD83

I've been told the same thing by all my friends. I keep hearing "It's nice to have you back finally" and it really hit me that I was a completely unhappy and different person in my last relationship. Crazy is no good. For anyone.

Amen, brother. We're better off.

[UTTAD83]

Originally Posted by Nick@Night

Besides spending 12+ hours in the same car with you, the Chicago trip a good time. More from a standpoint of "See, everyone, I do exist in real life". My favorite was still (I don't remember her name), "Are you really an asshole?"

Amen, brother. We're better off.

Indeed. It's nice being free

[dmbgodagirl41]

Originally Posted by Nick@Night

Besides spending 12+ hours in the same car with you, the Chicago trip a good time. More from a standpoint of "See, everyone, I do exist in real life". My favorite was still (I don't remember her name), "Are you really an asshole?"

Amen, brother. We're better off.

Bolded: WHATEVER.

That just means you have to make a DMB trip each summer to continue the awesome that is hearing "Are you really an asshole?"

[Nick@Night]

Didn't you hear? DMB is taking off next summer too. It's Dave's master plan to get Fonzy to quit the band.

[Styx Cover Band]

Unrelated to everything, Katie, Tom Brady got me 47 points in fantasy football and helped me win this week. So awesome

[dmbgodagirl41]

Originally Posted by Styx Cover Band

Unrelated to everything, Katie, Tom Brady got me 47 points in fantasy football and helped me win this week. So awesome

I'm happy my future husband did you well. I gave him a pep talk at half time that was something like "Stop dicking around, get it to Welker, UggBoy". He listens.

[Styx Cover Band]

Originally Posted by dmbgodagirl41

I'm happy my future husband did you well. I gave him a pep talk at half time that was something like "Stop dicking around, get it to Welker, UggBoy". He listens.

He was my first pick too, everyone else was taking running backs and I'm like no Tom Brady was the highest scoring player last year, I am taking him

[UTTAD83]

That fucker almost cost me my fantasy game.

[wnderwoman]

I have been doing boot camp every Mon, Wed and Fri from 6am to 7am. I have no stamina whatsoever, its humbling. Trying to get "in shape"

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[Nick@Night]

What shape are you going for, Angela? I like rhombus.

[wnderwoman]

Originally Posted by Nick@Night

What shape are you going for, Angela? I like rhombus.

I'm mainly just looking for more strength and general tightening. I am mostly happy with my current shape. Also more endurance.

[Styx Cover Band]

I dislike cardio greatly, but have been running more to get into shape for our basketball league which starts in two months. I'd much rather lift than run on a treadmill though

[wnderwoman]

Originally Posted by Styx Cover Band

I dislike cardio greatly, but have been running more to get into shape for our basketball league which starts in two months. I'd much rather lift than run on a treadmill though

Same here, we did stairs in boot camp last Wed and I almost died.

I hate stairs.

[Nick@Night]

I can't do yoga, all that breathing. I hate breathing. Well...except to live.

[I'mOnGreyStreet]

Originally Posted by UTTAD83

Just use the D.E.N.N.I.S system, she'll be yours in no time

[I'mOnGreyStreet]

Originally Posted by Nick@Night

The key to a girl with a bf already is to subtly make the bf look bad. In any relationship, a guy will start to wane in terms of showing affection or asking about the small stuff that shows a girl he cares. Since you can't really do much with the affection part, start chipping away at the small stuff. If you ask a girl about something small she brought up like a week ago she may have looked at as an afterthought, you'll win points.

The problem is that she's pretty into him. I really don't get why though. He's really needy. If she doesn't call him twice a day, he assumes she's cheating. We were watching a movie the other day, and he called in the middle. She said she'd call him back after, and he got really upset.

I've met the guy, and he's not really a jerk. Just really insecure I guess. None of the girls I know would put up with that kind of stuff though.

[wnderwoman]

Originally Posted by I'mOnGreyStreet

The problem is that she's pretty into him. I really don't get why though. He's really needy. If she doesn't call him twice a day, he assumes she's cheating. We were watching a movie the other day, and he called in the middle. She said she'd call him back after, and he got really upset.

I've met the guy, and he's not really a jerk. Just really insecure I guess. None of the girls I know would put up with that kind of stuff though.

Well he's not entirely wrong about having something to worry about...

Just sayin.

[I'mOnGreyStreet]

Originally Posted by wnderwoman

Well he's not entirely wrong about having something to worry about...

Just sayin.

True.

IMO, trust is a key part of a long distance relationship. I would end a long distance relationship if trust started to become an issue. Maybe that's just me though.

[wnderwoman]

Originally Posted by I'mOnGreyStreet

True.

IMO, trust is a key part of a long distance relationship. I would end a long distance relationship if trust started to become an issue. Maybe that's just me though.

I completely agrre, having been in a long distance relationship myself. Seeing each other every weekend does help, but he does need to trust her, that will drive both of them crazy, you can't let your imagination get the better of you. You also can't ignore the obvious either.

[Nick@Night]

Originally Posted by wnderwoman

I completely agrre, having been in a long distance relationship myself. Seeing each other every weekend does help, but he does need to trust her, that will drive both of them crazy, you can't let your imagination get the better of you. You also can't ignore the obvious either.

Tell that to my ex-fiancee.

[pathetic]

Originally Posted by I'mOnGreyStreet

The problem is that she's pretty into him. I really don't get why though. He's really needy. If she doesn't call him twice a day, he assumes she's cheating. We were watching a movie the other day, and he called in the middle. She said she'd call him back after, and he got really upset.

I've met the guy, and he's not really a jerk. Just really insecure I guess. None of the girls I know would put up with that kind of stuff though.

either she's cheated on him before or she's the exact same way... there's a reason someone is like that and it's all about insecurity.

[wnderwoman]

Originally Posted by pathetic

either she's cheated on him before or she's the exact same way... there's a reason someone is like that and it's all about insecurity.

I also think people who have cheated themselves are often the ones who get irrationally jealous.

[pathetic]

Originally Posted by wnderwoman

I also think people who have cheated themselves are often the ones who get irrationally jealous.

yup, and if you've been cheated on you get insecure in a annoying jealous type way.