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Old 01-07-2008, 06:47 PM   #91
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seriously, wtf, at 15? GD i was eating, going to school, swimming and sleeping. That was it.
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    I don't.

    I would have never done it.

    Sex is just different than a drug.
    if anything i think sex is worse at 15 than drinking or somking..

    i'm 16 and started drinking freshmen year and just had sex a little while ago. i guess that's your opinion but it seems weird to me that you would have sex before you drank
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    Seriously? They all have about the same potential for disaster. Not one of those options is better than the others.
    I agree but the JaRule/Ashanti lyric is in my head..."the sex is better than drugs"
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    seriously, wtf, at 15? GD i was eating, going to school, swimming and sleeping. That was it.
    I agree....
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    I don't.

    I would have never done it.

    Sex is just different than a drug.

    How? I'd say sex IS a drug. You're doing it for the pleasure. If you're doing it at 15, you're definitely not doing it for procreation.
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    Old 01-07-2008, 06:48 PM   #96
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    seriously, wtf, at 15? GD i was eating, going to school, swimming and sleeping. That was it.
    Replace swimming with reading.
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    run up to her. pull down your pants. wave it around. She'll get the picture.
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    Old 01-07-2008, 06:50 PM   #98
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    if anything i think sex is worse at 15 than drinking or somking..

    i'm 16 and started drinking freshmen year and just had sex a little while ago. i guess that's your opinion but it seems weird to me that you would have sex before you drank
    Yeah no thanks. I refused to even talk to people that smoked pot when I was that age...I was the preppy smart chick. But I had sex...so I guess I didn't keep the innocent thing.

    Alcohol didn't really touch my life until my junior year...
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    If you really know what I'm saying then I'm very upset with you
    Turns out i had NO CLUE what you were talking about
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    Old 01-07-2008, 06:51 PM   #101
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    Yeah no thanks. I refused to even talk to people that smoked pot when I was that age...I was the preppy smart chick. But I had sex...so I guess I didn't keep the innocent thing.

    Alcohol didn't really touch my life until my junior year...
    freshmen and sophomore year none of my friends smoked and neither did i. i thought it was disgusting. this summer i smoked a little but now i can't becuase my school drug tests.
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    How? I'd say sex IS a drug. You're doing it for the pleasure. If you're doing it at 15, you're definitely not doing it for procreation.
    Alright I'm sorry, but at 15 you aren't drinking or smoking for pleasure.....at that age, you don't even understand what control is (most people).
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    Old 01-07-2008, 06:52 PM   #103
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    Turns out i had NO CLUE what you were talking about
    Yeah well. I know where I stand
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    Old 01-07-2008, 06:53 PM   #104
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    Alright I'm sorry, but at 15 you aren't drinking or smoking for pleasure.....at that age, you don't even understand what control is (most people).

    smoke is a pleasure, drink to be social and well you know...
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    Old 01-07-2008, 06:54 PM   #105
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    freshmen and sophomore year none of my friends smoked and neither did i. i thought it was disgusting. this summer i smoked a little but now i can't becuase my school drug tests.
    I smoked a joint at a DMB show in 05. That was my first attempt at pot.....It did change my opinion on the people who smoked pot, and I did finally allow my boyfriends to...
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    Alright I'm sorry, but at 15 you aren't drinking or smoking for pleasure.....at that age, you don't even understand what control is (most people).
    i agree when you first start drinking you do it to be cool and get smashed. not that i'm an experienced drinker or anything now, but i definitely know what my limit is and don't go into the night trying to get hammered so i don't remember anything.
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    i think it really depends on the person, i drank and smoked when i was 15 but i was much more mature than most 15 year olds, so i was able to control myself...and by mature i mean mature enough to spend the summer in rural france by myself.
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    Old 01-07-2008, 06:55 PM   #108
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    smoke is a pleasure, drink to be social and well you know...
    I understand what it is now and for older people but at 15 my friend had no control. My bestfriend, who was actually rather intelligent, had alcohol poisoning 5 times in HS...I would NEVER EVER put myself in that situation, nor would I want my children.
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    freshmen and sophomore year none of my friends smoked and neither did i. i thought it was disgusting. this summer i smoked a little but now i can't becuase my school drug tests.
    I have never heard of a school drug testing people, and I go to a private catholic school. Shit that blows...
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    At 15 I got a gal preggers.

    Thank God she had an abortion.

    I didn't understand too well then anyway.
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    i think it really depends on the person, i drank and smoked when i was 15 but i was much more mature than most 15 year olds, so i was able to control myself...and by mature i mean mature enough to spend the summer in rural france by myself.
    Maybe it's because I was the more mature one of my friends that I didn't get into those things. I mean I spent the summer in Brasil when I was 16 and China when I was 17 (if we are talking like that). I was always the one with the good head on their shoulders and the kid that every parent wanted...I still for the most part am. Although since smoking pot I've lost a few brain cells and occasionally have these blank moments...It might just be from not exercising my brain like I use to.
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    I have never heard of a school drug testing people, and I go to a private catholic school. Shit that blows...
    just started this year. apparently "it's not a way to catch people, but a way for students to have a reason to say no"
    and that's worked real well considering they've cuaght a ridiculous amount of people, which is totally backfiring on them because they are losing money. i go to a private catholic school too.
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    I have never heard of a school drug testing people, and I go to a private catholic school. Shit that blows...
    Our athletes got drug tested...always...
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    At 15 I got a gal preggers.

    Thank God she had an abortion.

    I didn't understand too well then anyway.
    Pretty sure yall did the world a favor there.
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    Maybe it's because I was the more mature one of my friends that I didn't get into those things. I mean I spent the summer in Brasil when I was 16 and China when I was 17 (if we are talking like that). I was always the one with the good head on their shoulders and the kid that every parent wanted...I still for the most part am. Although since smoking pot I've lost a few brain cells and occasionally have these blank moments...It might just be from not exercising my brain like I use to.
    im the same way, not a fuck up, etc....but i still smoked pot and drank when i was 15...and i was still a straight A, AP, student....and im about to graduate college and go on to law school so i dont really think it screwed me up too badly.
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    this is probably a stupid question but when my x girlfriend and i were together we had sex during the for like 5 or 6 motnhs and she would not have her period for like 2 or 3 months because she plays soccer a ton? so why does that have anything to do with it? and does that mean she can't get pregnant during that time?
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    Alright I'm sorry, but at 15 you aren't drinking or smoking for pleasure.....at that age, you don't even understand what control is (most people).
    The point is not whether it's for pleasure or not, but does it make sense, and at 15 it makes plenty of sense for someone to be drinking or smoking. It's a social thing at that age and we all know how it big a factor social acceptance is in high school whether yo subscribed to it or not. I started drinking that age for that reason alone. I didn't necessarily enjoy it and I definitey didn't abuse it, but it was a social thing and I wanted to be accepted just like the rest of my friends wanted the same.
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    this is probably a stupid question but when my x girlfriend and i were together we had sex during the for like 5 or 6 motnhs and she would not have her period for like 2 or 3 months because she plays soccer a ton? so why does that have anything to do with it? and does that mean she can't get pregnant during that time?
    It has to do with the way her hormones are. I can skip for a month or two because of stress and other situations.



    She can get pregnant at all times. You have no idea when an egg will drop. You could release one or more at the same time and one could be in the tube while she is bleeding and it could get fertilized. The only 100% way to not get pregnant is abstinence.

    I have this discussion with my reading buddy from elementary school like daily. (she is a freshman and scares the hell out of me)
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    Pretty sure yall did the world a favor there.
    I agree. I was still essentially a child.

    I still don't want children - ever.
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