What I think I've come to realize is probably my
main problem... and I suppose I'll see if anyone can relate... simply put, I'm far too self aware. I'm too self aware of how inherently silly and kind of demeaning the whole process is, and I just can't shut off that part of my brain that recognizes that fact, whereas I think maybe others that certainly realize the same issues, they
can block it out and ably "play the game". And it's definitely not my way of saying I'm better or anything, that well I'm smarter because I know about this, not at all, hell if anything it makes me worse because of my inability to shut that off. And like particularly a thing like a Singles Mixer, in fact the local big morning show here in Philly has a few infamous "Painfully Singles Mixer"s a year, and (well ok, besides just even my issue with feeling especially uncomfortable in larger crowds) as much as in theory I'd love to go to one of these, in that environment it's the same self awareness but hiked up into overdrive. It's "yea, okay, this is obviously what we're here for... so let's get the talking and flirting going, yea?"
ughh, it just makes me cringe, the thought of that
I hope I'm explaining this what I mean well enough.