Dave had security pull us backstage tonight!

[BotheLaneFan]

Originally Posted by Fatoldsun

Cheating is pretty rampant in marriages, or should I say I've been privy to many relationships where cheating has happened or is occurring. Often, it's the deception and lying that ruins these relationships.

So, you're a call girl/call boy?

[Fatoldsun]

Originally Posted by B(h)OthePrompterfan

So, you're a call girl/call boy?

i work with marc williams. you couldn't afford my services.

[Fatoldsun]

Originally Posted by Fatoldsun

i work with marc williams. you couldn't afford my services, hammerhead.

there, fixed.

[beachball]

Originally Posted by tfinn29

Can you truly love someone and have a open marriage.. would that really work?

having millions of dollars while having to deal with your husband messing around with the occasional isolated "midlife crisis slampig" while on the road, which has no real effect on his lifelong devotion to you or your lives together, is better than --> being dirt arse poor all the time with a husband that is 100% faithful.

[Funkhouser]

I love how everyone is a marriage counselor in this thread

[tfinn29]

Originally Posted by beachball

having millions of dollars while having to deal with your husband messing around with the occasional isolated "midlife crisis slampig" while on the road, which has no real effect on his lifelong devotion to you or your lives together, is better than --> being dirt arse poor all the time with a husband that is 100% faithful.

I guess.. personally jealousy would get the better of me. In the beginning I'd probably be ok with it then I'd probably start thinking hell I have the kids and more child support then I could ever want..

honestly if it works for them it works because it always has... good for them

[smokew11]

Originally Posted by beachball

having millions of dollars while having to deal with your husband messing around with the occasional isolated "midlife crisis slampig" while on the road, which has no real effect on his lifelong devotion to you or your lives together, is better than --> being dirt arse poor all the time with a husband that is 100% faithful.

[stoneje]

OP's user title just got a lot more awesome.

[currupt3d**]

Deserves a bump, also should be put in Epic Threads section.

[Dannyyankou]

Did he tickle her belly?

[chadizzy1]

Originally Posted by currupt3d**

Deserves a bump, also should be put in Epic Threads section.

Agree

It's a very unique thread

[dwill26]

Best thread of the summer. Still a great read.

[bigbeartilidie]

Originally Posted by Dannyyankou

Did he tickle her belly?

nice

[neumdogg]

Originally Posted by SteveLillywhite

I can almost guarantee that most of the guys here saying that Dave "definately cheats on his wife" are frat bros in their late teens/early 20's. As you get older, part of the reason you don't cheat on your spouse has as much to do with your children as it does with your wife. Cheating on your spouse, eventually will be discovered by your spouse which in turn will be found out by your kids. And that type of stuff leaves a legacy of you as a man that your children will live with forever. I'm sure Dave had a great time back in his youth, but as you get older you realize that constantly sleeping with random women actually takes more from you than it gives. Not to mention Dave seems to really care about his kids. I understand this may be hard to grasp for someone in their teens or early twenties, but I am sure some of the older guys on this board know what I am talking about.

The child-like ignorance in this post still cracks me up.

I love this thread.

[crush40dmb]

Originally Posted by claytonabbott10

So tonight in Louisville myself (21) and my younger sister (18) were in about the 3rd row center. Throughout the night it seemed as if Dave were looking straight at us, however it always feels like that. Well then he started pointing at my sister and giving her a thumbs up and pointing to his hair (she has a unique hairstyle). Later on in the show she put her hands in the air and did as you would if you were making a bird in a shadow, symbolizing she wanted to hear butterfly, and he did the hand sign back. So the show went on and right at the end of Christmas Song security was walking the rail looking for someone, he finally found my little sister and said "come with me." So naturally I wasn't going to let us get split up since I had no idea what was going on. The guy walks us backstage and tells us to wait. We were able to see Halloween and Billies from just off the side of the stage standing right next to Jimmy Cliff. Immediately after the encore ended, Dave left the stage, walked up to me and my sister and said follow me. We went to his dressing room and had a 15 minute conversation with him. He said that he found my little sister "unique and fun to look at, so I just wanted to say hello." My sister who is an art student began discussing his art form with him and we got a lot of cool background on the AFTW artwork as well as his history. I asked him how often he pulls people from the crowd like that and he said "I've actually never done this! Well at least not that I can remember." This was truly an unbelievable experience for me, and so I figured I'd share it with my fellow ants!

Took all of two minutes to find proof. YouTube Christmas Song 12/4/12 posted by Erin Elise Levin. You clearly see some crew member walk to the center of the pit, look for someone and then what I though was three people walk to meet the guy. Pretty effing awesome!

[seekupchuck]

awesome thread, thanks for the bump...when I saw the first picture of alleged sis, I was thinking.."come on Dave"...but totally get it with the second pic(ol' zany hair)...not that the first sis is not cute, but never underestimate the attractiveness of the hot alternative chick..ESPECIALLY as Dave alluded to, when it isnt "normally the type"...she probably stcuk out like a sore thumb in the first couple rows...

Originally Posted by cubiesfan05

I was right at the rail in Louisville, saw the OP and his sister standing over to the Boyd side of the stage during the encore after security pulled them over.......Don't get me wrong, OP's sister is a fine looking gal and all but there were hundreds of hotter specimen's that ole Dave could have chose from out of that GA crowd.

^read above...when you can have anything you want, it becomes about uniqueness at some level...one of the reasons 10s get cheated on regularly...see Chris Rock's breakthrough work on "new" and "old" pussy

Originally Posted by emp88

anyone thats met dave knows how flirty he is...i believe hearing somewhere he and his wife have 'open marriage' wouldnt be a total suprise but then again wouldnt want to jump to conclusions.
im totally doing a crazy hair do for boston

took 12 pages for someone to offer a very likely scenario...it is perfectly reasonable for an intelligent, loving woman to be able to rationalize the crude ape-like tendencies from a powerful male, and put it aside for the benefits of the marriage...and not just the money and fame...it is also perfectly plausible that Dave can be your general cooz-hound and still be an engaged partner and a loving father...fuck, are you guys forgetting these people are products of the hippie movement?(free love maaaann) What about Mormons? Mitt Romney's peeps can have it like that with the ladies, but not Dave Matthews?

Originally Posted by beachball

exactly. what is presented to the general public is one thing - family friendly jam band with accessible songs. but its only fair to speculate an alternative reality of them being millionaire rock stars who can do anything and anyone they want. humans are only so strong. i mean didn't someone say Carter has a 18 year old girlfriend HAHAHA - and Dave randomly taking young girls to his dressing room now. Let's all get our 'jump to conclusion' mats out

if it smells like a pig, looks like a pig, and has creative hair like a pig then its probably a slampig.

I agree in general, but that is not what Dave projects in public...he drools over the female form in just about every public appearance when he has the chance, even on national tv...

[seekupchuck]

and I get the logic of "if he was gonna cheat, he wouldnt risk it in this setting"

but, also overlooking the power play involved here...in his element, literally pointing to a piece of prey like a caveman...that is as much of it than actually getting the woman

i gotta get a band...the biggest band in the world

[neumdogg]

I miss this thread so much.

[RiotAct]

Zoooomggg!!!!

[coombse]

Originally Posted by jrod41

https://www.facebook.com/tiffany.abbott.1

Look what Dave did

[neumdogg]

Originally Posted by coombse

Look what Dave did

[MidwestGirl]

This thread cracks me up

[neumdogg]

Originally Posted by MidwestGirl

This thread cracks me up

It's truly fantastic.

[claytonabbott10]

Haha looking back and reading my post... I'm an idiot... "unique and fun to look at" sounds like a cheesy dave-esque pick up line if I've ever heard one!

[neumdogg]

Originally Posted by claytonabbott10

Haha looking back and reading my post... I'm an idiot... "unique and fun to look at" sounds like a cheesy dave-esque pick up line if I've ever heard one!

The OP is back! Any other backstage visits?

[bartender_man]

Great thread!

[#41Tom]

Hahaha such a good backread!!!

Originally Posted by claytonabbott10

In other news...

On second thought Fonz did walk back and forth by the dressing room while we were in there at least 5 times! Don't wanna think about that

He's definitely straight, and he definitely wanted sloppy seconds...

[#41Tom]

Originally Posted by beachball

if it smells like a pig, looks like a pig, and has creative hair like a pig then its probably a slampig.

[jcc522]

Never saw this thread. Looked at the link of the sister:

https://scontent-atl3-1.xx.fbcdn.net...79&oe=56ECAF0E
ok, its growing

https://scontent-atl3-1.xx.fbcdn.net...4e&oe=56DB8EF9
reaching diamond levels

https://scontent-atl3-1.xx.fbcdn.net...53&oe=56EA0EDF
aw fuck bye, abort. What kind of mental and daddy issues does this sloot have?

[dmbetc]

holy shit, this was 3 years ago?