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Originally Posted by cazzie34
Sorry, the reason why I eliminated the first question was because I saw that it was in your original response.
With regards to they why, it looks like it was because you had some debt problems. Who approached who? Were you missing payments and needed someone to help? What was the debt? 4 figures? 5 figures?
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It was about $18k. It started out as a conversation and ended with her just kind of taking things over while I was in debt. Initially it was only supposed to last about 2 years, which is how long we figured it would take me to get out of debt. It actually took less than that, so I was kind of like "let's keep this going, if you don't mind" and she didn't and it's been that way since. No real reason to change it back. Like I said, until something changes, it's not worth the time to go through the accounts and remove her from them.
As to how I got myself into that type of debt, a lot of bad decisions. Some were bad decisions on purchases or using credit and some bad decisions ended up having financial consequences. Basically being stupid with my own money, thinking it was an unlimited source and I was free from any consequences of overspending. Because I was an adult and working, I felt entitled to everything right then as opposed to being patient and paying for things as I go.
Also, if you're still struggling with the idea that I'm "not in control of my money", keep in mind that I'm still in control of my money. I think of it the same way I help people on the Excel message boards that I used to frequent. When someone asked me recently if there was a way to remove non-numeric numbers from a cell. I wrote this function...
Code:
Function GetNumbers(S As String) As String
Dim i As Long
For i = 1 To Len(S)
If Mid(S, i, 1) Like "[1-9]" Then GetNumbers = GetNumbers & Mid(S, i, 1)
Next i
End Function
...and then said you can reference the function in a cell, like this:
The person who asked for that doesn't care how the function works, they just care that it works. Who created it literally doesn't matter. The owner of the workbook is still in control of the workbook and all the data in the workbook.