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Originally Posted by sheldonlevene
I know. It's just been a minute since I was in college. Feels like a weird time to be navigating that environment.
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I think as long as she isn't belligerent and you feel she can give consent, you should be good.
I feel way more for the girls honestly. With the rise of the date rape drug, they've got to be particularly cautious and that fucking sucks because it's an environment where you often aren't cautious. I know I wasn't. Luckily I didn't have to worry about that.
It sickens me that there are dudes out there that would do that sort of thing. I used to think it was extremely extremely rare, but a girl I was very close to had it happen to her. Thankfully, she left the bar early and called me before it hit her. I got kinda pissed at her cause she turned completely belligerent and like crying and punching me when I was walking her home. I'm so thankful I was there to drop her off, but the thought of it going just slightly different (she doesn't decide to leave the bar early, etc) is scary.
I say that to say this. If I've personally witnessed it, it can't be as rare as I thought. Which fucking sucks.