I had decent conversations going on with at least 2 different girls at one point on OKC. I had got to the point of not wanting to message online for too long anymore and was cutting straight to "let's get together". One girl vanished for like 2 weeks, while another responded and we went on our first date shortly thereafter. But sometime either right before or right after that date, the other girl finally messaged back and said she was down for meeting.
Problem was after 1-2 weeks of hearing nothing, I had deleted our conversation on OKC and thus could NOT remember her name. Thought it would be weird to then set up a date but be like, and btw, I forget your name
But it worked out because things with the other girl seemed like they would go well. So it was my turn to play the vanishing act on her
edit: also, 3 months with this one as of this Wednesday