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Old 11-09-2017, 05:18 PM   #121
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does quid quo pro apply here?
I learned what this meant from a cartoon movie.

What do you mean though?
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    They're trying to give Roy Moore a pass on sexual harassment. Alabama State Auditor Jim Ziegler: "...take Joseph and Mary. Mary was a teenager and Joseph was an adult carpenter. They became parents of Jesus.”

    Uhhh what

    https://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry...b0e37d2f366dba
    so, Roy Moore is basically God?

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    Old 11-09-2017, 05:19 PM   #123
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    I learned what this meant from a cartoon movie.

    What do you mean though?
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    does quid quo pro fall under this topic
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    Old 11-09-2017, 05:20 PM   #124
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    They're trying to give Roy Moore a pass on sexual harassment. Alabama State Auditor Jim Ziegler: "...take Joseph and Mary. Mary was a teenager and Joseph was an adult carpenter. They became parents of Jesus.”

    Uhhh what

    https://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry...b0e37d2f366dba
    wow. This is sickening
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    Old 11-09-2017, 05:23 PM   #125
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    My Grandmother (mom's mom) got married at 14.

    Can you even imagine?
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    Old 11-09-2017, 05:24 PM   #126
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    Re: Sexual Abuse/Harassment Thread

    https://twitter.com/lizmeriwether/st...57120769523712

    “And he has one encounter with a 14 year old—“
    “And it was consensual—“
    “And it was consensual, that’s true.” —Sean Hannity, USA, 2017

    So there's that.
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    Old 11-09-2017, 05:25 PM   #127
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    https://twitter.com/lizmeriwether/st...57120769523712

    “And he has one encounter with a 14 year old—“
    “And it was consensual—“
    “And it was consensual, that’s true.” —Sean Hannity, USA, 2017

    So there's that.

    It's only statutory rape, Cazz, not real rape. Geez. This is a witch hunt.
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    Old 11-09-2017, 05:25 PM   #128
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    I would actually really like to hear Feldman’s whole story.
    In case you or others haven't seen this.

    https://www.indiegogo.com/projects/c...uth-campaign#/

    Not the whole story but gives hints in his own words.

    Painful to watch, and bizarre.
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    Old 11-09-2017, 05:27 PM   #129
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    “And he has one encounter with a 14 year old—“
    “And it was consensual—“
    “And it was consensual, that’s true.” —Sean Hannity, USA, 2017

    So there's that.
    What I read didn't sound consensual.

    Agreeing to go on the date (before getting assaulted) isn't giving consent.
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    Old 11-09-2017, 05:28 PM   #130
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    can we move senator Moore's sexual assault discussion to the trump thread
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    Old 11-09-2017, 05:33 PM   #131
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    What I read didn't sound consensual.

    Agreeing to go on the date (before getting assaulted) isn't giving consent.
    i dint click the link

    but hell no, its not giving consent. i dont see how a date alone could ever be consent.
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    Old 11-09-2017, 05:41 PM   #132
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    I would actually really like to hear Feldman’s whole story.
    I'd like him to find peace and have the people who need to be punished get what they deserve. If that could happen without me hearing what actually happened would be okay with me. He certainly appears to be very damaged person who has lost a great deal.
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    Old 11-09-2017, 05:46 PM   #133
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    can we move senator Moore's sexual assault discussion to the trump thread
    No. And come back.
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    Old 11-09-2017, 05:57 PM   #134
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    can we move senator Moore's sexual assault discussion to the trump thread
    Yeahhh about that
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    Old 11-09-2017, 06:14 PM   #135
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    Re: Sexual Abuse/Harassment Thread

    Hannity's whole schtick tonight is to bring up every single democrat or or hollywood member thats been accused of sexual harrassment
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    Wonder if Salon will publish an article defending Moore? Ya know since they seem to be into that kinda thing.
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    It may be time to boycott any company headquartered in Alabama.
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    Old 11-09-2017, 07:13 PM   #138
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    Saw on Twitter. Appropriate.

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    It may be time to boycott any company headquartered in Alabama.
    Does Auburn University count? I'm boycotting as of now
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    Wonder if Salon will publish an article defending Moore? Ya know since they seem to be into that kinda thing.
    Moore sent out an email basically saying "I'm innocent, donate money to me so I can fight back against these allegations" so probably.
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    I learned what this meant from a cartoon movie.



    What do you mean though?


    It was a reference to another thread but both questions posed really haven't been discussed. It is what it is
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    Re: Sexual Abuse/Harassment Thread

    I started this thread so I don't really want to re-tell my stories: https://www.antsmarching.org/forum/s...d.php?t=343966

    I have to admit...these stories have brought up some shitty fucking memories. Luckily, I don't get PTSD with this kind of stuff.

    However, the one thing this is doing for me is giving me a feeling of satisfaction. Satisfaction that these fuckers are finally getting caught and/or called out. Male or female, this shit fucking sucks.
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    Does Auburn University count? I'm boycotting as of now
    Auburn is in West Georgia!
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    Hannity's whole schtick tonight is to bring up every single democrat or or hollywood member thats been accused of sexual harrassment
    I'm sure bill o'reilly was included

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    No. And come back.
    likely not
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    Re: Sexual Abuse/Harassment Thread

    CK released a statement owning up to everything and apologizing. Doesn't excuse it or make it better whatsoever, but one of the best responses to this kind of thing we've seen recently -- not denying, deflecting, or trying to share the blame with someone or something else.

    Click the "Show Spoiler" Button to reveal hidden text.
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    Yeah owning up to being a pervert and admitting it definitely a better look than blaming Jeff Bezos
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    CK released a statement owning up to everything and apologizing. Doesn't excuse it or make it better whatsoever, but one of the best responses to this kind of thing we've seen recently -- not denying, deflecting, or trying to share the blame with someone or something else.

    Click the "Show Spoiler" Button to reveal hidden text.
    Good for him. I instantly respect someone more if they own up the way he did. You can't change the past or what you've done, but working towards making it right or at the very least making amends is always respectable.
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    I can respect his statement.
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    it would have been nice if he owned up to how he threatened to end people's careers if they talked about it

    that's a little different than "oh, I just realized now how much it must have affected these women"
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    it would have been nice if he owned up to how he threatened to end people's careers if they talked about it

    that's a little different than "oh, I just realized now how much it must have affected these women"
    Did he do this? Honestly asking, haven't really followed the story.
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