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Originally Posted by coldengrey12
Every action she describes reads to me as a nonverbal no.
"I stopped moving my lips and turned cold" does not sound like a woman who wants this to happen.
Do you think a woman (or anybody, really) who "turned cold" sounds like someone turned on?
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Sure, but this also comes with the assumption that her actions were as clear as she's making it sound. Were they? Who knows, and I think most dudes would understand, but if anything comes from this story it should be:
If you don't want something to continue/happen, say something and make sure it is clearly known. Problem solved. Otherwise, things like this will continue to happen because hooking up, in general (especially for the first time), can come with the possibility of a lot of awkward/confusing interactions that are not always clear or obvious.