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Originally Posted by M. Steng
Thanks guys. Not trying to drag anyone down, but it's just so tremendously sad. Easily the toughest thing we've ever been through in our 14+ years together. It's been a real tough few days here and my wife still isn't really ready to talk about it, which is concerning to me, but all in due time I suppose. It finally hit me during a quiet moment while working in the garage yesterday, I don't think I've ever cried so hard in my life. You don't really understand this kind of pain and sadness until you go through it.
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I'm sorry buddy. Feel free to PM me if I can help at all or just want someone to talk to.
But you're right about everything. You'll, of course, start noticing every show or movie or thing ever, has a reference to baby or pregnant or reminds you of it, and it sucks. And it's double for your wife because she can't help herself think's its somehow her fault even though it's not. Just keep telling yourself that this is the worst pain you'll ever have to feel and it gets better, even when it feels like it won't.
Music really helped get me through it. You'll find a song or even a riff or verse that just hits differently and has new meaning. My song was Another Story by Head and the Heart. That whole album just hit me at a time when I needed it most.