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Old 11-09-2017, 04:29 PM   #91
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I love the implication that if you were single you would have done it
Yeah, I was 17. I can say with 99.9% sincerity I probably would have done it.

If that same situation happened now I wouldn't do it, but people think differently when they're a teen vs when they're an adult.
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    Yeah, I was 17. I can say with 99.9% sincerity I probably would have done it.

    If that same situation happened now I wouldn't do it, but people think differently when they're a teen vs when they're an adult.
    Absolutely, man!
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    Old 11-09-2017, 04:40 PM   #93
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    What's a pederast, Walter?
    Shut the fuck up, Donny
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    Old 11-09-2017, 04:45 PM   #94
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    If C2S doesn't understand what sexual harassment is, then he should leave this thread. I'm banning before locking.
    Amazing how a poster can troll away all afternoon, as he does pretty much all the time, and get a thread locked but nothing happens. Here, a different poster put up one thing and he's facing a ban. Nothing like even application of the no trolling ban, is there.
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    Old 11-09-2017, 04:46 PM   #95
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    So if a guy grabs my ass, but it only happened one time, that's not sexual harassment to you?
    I want the answer to this. I'll keep reading, but I'm intrigued where this goes.
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    Old 11-09-2017, 04:46 PM   #96
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    It’s not about to me or not to me.

    Grabbing a woman’s butt worst case would be sexual assault. But not sexual harassment.
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    Old 11-09-2017, 04:47 PM   #97
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    can we add "allegations" to the thread title so it doesn't look like we're discussing tips and tricks?
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    Old 11-09-2017, 04:48 PM   #98
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    What's a pederast, Walter?
    Shut the fuck up, Donny.
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    Old 11-09-2017, 04:49 PM   #99
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    Amazing how a poster can troll away all afternoon, as he does pretty much all the time, and get a thread locked but nothing happens. Here, a different poster put up one thing and he's facing a ban. Nothing like even application of the no trolling ban, is there.
    The thread deserved to be shut down. It wasn't just Jeepkid. It was a disaster this afternoon that came out of nowhere.

    I'm hopeful it'll come back (if it doesn't politics will just bleed into other threads)
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    Old 11-09-2017, 04:50 PM   #100
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    can we add "allegations" to the thread title so it doesn't look like we're discussing tips and tricks?


    u running for office?
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    Old 11-09-2017, 04:51 PM   #101
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    The thread deserved to be shut down. It wasn't just Jeepkid. It was a disaster this afternoon that came out of nowhere.

    I'm hopeful it'll come back (if it doesn't politics will just bleed into other threads)
    Exactly. It was a collective effort. Jeep Kid led you all down his path, so everyone loses.
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    Old 11-09-2017, 04:56 PM   #102
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    The thread deserved to be shut down. It wasn't just Jeepkid. It was a disaster this afternoon that came out of nowhere.

    I'm hopeful it'll come back (if it doesn't politics will just bleed into other threads)
    I like discussing politics, and I enjoyed being able to discuss it here. It's a shame we can't keep a thread open for those of us who enjoy political discourse.
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    Re: Sexual Abuse/Harassment Thread

    So the other day when Spacey news broke I had mentioned there was another story that I was hoping would come out that would show it wasn't just a one time "drunken" incident. That was the story of Dreyfuss' son, Harry. A co-woker went to college with him, and he shared that story years ago to her. That day she said "I've known this about Spacey for years. I hope Harry shares his story" He did and he claimed in the article he would tell the story at parties for laughs because he didn't think people would take him seriously.

    I hope this isn't just a trend, with the collective us taking these actions seriously.
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    Old 11-09-2017, 04:58 PM   #104
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    I like discussing politics, and I enjoyed being able to discuss it here. It's a shame we can't keep a thread open for those of us who enjoy political discourse.
    I'm sure it'll come back. I agree with whomever closed it that it needed a break. It was getting weird.

    If they don't reopen it politics will just creep into other threads and no one wants that. Let the degenerates hang out in one place. Like Frank and the vietnamese gambling in It's always sunny.
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    Exactly. It was a collective effort. Jeep Kid led you all down his path, so everyone loses.
    So why isn't Jeep Kid banned? You seem to be aware that he was trolling, he does it over and over, everyone acknowledges it, why not do something about it?
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    Old 11-09-2017, 05:02 PM   #106
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    So why isn't Jeep Kid banned? You seem to be aware that he was trolling, he does it over and over, everyone acknowledges it, why not do something about it?
    Maybe we will. Feel free to shoot the mods a PM.
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    Old 11-09-2017, 05:03 PM   #107
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    So why isn't Jeep Kid banned? You seem to be aware that he was trolling, he does it over and over, everyone acknowledges it, why not do something about it?
    its because JK is a legend around these parts

    he left his socks on
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    Old 11-09-2017, 05:06 PM   #108
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    If someone links me to the post(s) in question ill ban the dood if its called for

    EDIT: via PM
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    Old 11-09-2017, 05:07 PM   #109
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    Maybe we will. Feel free to shoot the mods a PM.

    2 things:

    A - it looks like you're a mod

    B - some mod obviously read the thread and decided it needed to be locked - most of that was related to his posts. Are you trying to tell me a mod can decide to lock a thread and then totally erase their memory as to what posts caused it to be locked? They need a pm for that to happen? Seriously?
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    I'll take this since my name is Walter. Pederast refers to homosexual behavior between a man and a young boy.
    Obviously you're not a golfer.
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    2 things:

    A - it looks like you're a mod

    B - some mod obviously read the thread and decided it needed to be locked - most of that was related to his posts. Are you trying to tell me a mod can decide to lock a thread and then totally erase their memory as to what posts caused it to be locked? They need a pm for that to happen? Seriously?
    I reported one of the posts.

    He even admits to trolling on the top of this page:
    https://antsmarching.org/forum/showt...3913&page=1892
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    Old 11-09-2017, 05:11 PM   #112
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    Obviously you're not a golfer.
    Thanks a lot, asshole.
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    2 things:

    A - it looks like you're a mod

    B - some mod obviously read the thread and decided it needed to be locked - most of that was related to his posts. Are you trying to tell me a mod can decide to lock a thread and then totally erase their memory as to what posts caused it to be locked? They need a pm for that to happen? Seriously?
    I'm telling you to PM a mod to talk about this, because discussing it in another thread isn't the place.

    And it's been taken care of.
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    Old 11-09-2017, 05:13 PM   #114
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    woops - my bad, should have pm'ed. will drop it from here.
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    The thread deserved to be shut down. It wasn't just Jeepkid. It was a disaster this afternoon that came out of nowhere.

    I'm hopeful it'll come back (if it doesn't politics will just bleed into other threads)
    Totally wasn’t just JK, definitely a total disaster that 100% came out of fucking nowhere, agreed.
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    Old 11-09-2017, 05:15 PM   #116
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    I was beaten to the punch. But yes, like Sarah said: this thread isnt the place for this

    back on topic
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    I guess that's what happens when the one sensible person isn't around.
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    Old 11-09-2017, 05:16 PM   #118
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    They're trying to give Roy Moore a pass on sexual harassment. Alabama State Auditor Jim Ziegler: "...take Joseph and Mary. Mary was a teenager and Joseph was an adult carpenter. They became parents of Jesus.”

    Uhhh what

    https://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry...b0e37d2f366dba
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    I would actually really like to hear Feldman’s whole story.
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    does quid quo pro apply here?
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