Re: I'm 13, and this is my definition of love...
When you get serious before you were really ready to, because you truly thought you were, you end up finding out the hard way that you should have waited. You think one person is THE ONE, until you find yourself attracted to someone new and you are tempted. And if you have committed to the person you are with, whether you're married, or you simply live together, and one of you is supporting the other or depending on the other, you find that you are trapped, because you locked yourself in to a situation, thinking it was the best idea at the time. When you are young, you should make sure that you are never tied down. What you feel you want today might completely change tomorrow, whether there are a thousand reasons or no reasons at all. When you are young you find yourself falling in "lust" and mistaking your strong feelings for love. Lust can be more consuming than love, but it fades. The best thing to do is wait until you are mature enough to tell the difference as well as be able to resist the temptation. You'll only get yourself hurt by believing you are mature enough and jumping into situations. I did it. I'm 19. I like being where I am now but I just got through a short time period where I wanted OUT! It was very difficult. Relationships go through ups and downs but you have to be mature enough to understand that first of all, and then smart enough to know when enough is enough. I know I'm in love but I will never know if this person was the one for me. He may be the one I stay with, I might end up with someone else. I thought I could get married within the next few years and then when I started to think more realistically I found that I really cannot see where in my life marriage falls. These are things you can't know when you are so young. I'm 19 and I don't know what I want from life. You cannot at 13. You might be a mature 13, well, I'm a mature 19 and this is what I think.
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