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Ha ha. I've never had the wrong colors on because I've always gone to Bruins games and naturally rooted for them. However I don't really remember the fans around me being very drunk or disorderly.

Okay, you at least need to explain what Hockey Night in Canada is.
Doogystyle so both of you can be watching your favorite team on TV.

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    I was waiting for a fight or some kind of action! There was nothing... It was also the game that they retired Luc Robitaille (sp?) jersey, so that took forever. Maybe I need to give it another shot.
    Gotta go to an AHL game for that. Those are the BEST. Literally, they blow the whistle, drop the puck, and guys who are NO WHERE near the puck will just start punching it out.

    I love the AHL.
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    maybe you need to take another shot
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    Gotta go to an AHL game for that. Those are the BEST. Literally, they blow the whistle, drop the puck, and guys who are NO WHERE near the puck will just start punching it out.

    I love the AHL.
    I think I need to go to a game with you and LA. Actually I need to go anywhere with you and LA.
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    Old 10-02-2009, 10:50 AM   #3065
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    nothings hotter than when the girl your summin or girlfriend wears "your" jersey or your favorite teams jersey around the house/apt. after the sum has commenced...

    also love that commercial with the guy dressed up as biron or any philly goalie and his wife a maid, and shes confused caz she said fantasy... but fuckin as a goalie was her husbands fantasy haha...

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    I think I need to go to a game with you and LA. Actually I need to go anywhere with you and LA.
    We'd be one helluva motley crew!
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    I think I need to go to a game with you and LA. Actually I need to go anywhere with you and LA.
    I agree 100% with this statement.
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    This has been the worst page in this entire thread. Talk about an offtopic tailspin into the toilet.
    Troof.

    What did you decide to do about the wedding?
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    so the other day i accidentally hit the personals tab on my yahoo toolbar (i don't even know why i have this) and i decided while i'm there i'd see if by any freak chance there was someone decent (i'm not a member of this program, yet). i did actually find a really cute girl (one of like 3 on the entire site for my area) who loves sports and seems pretty good. problem is shes 25 (im 21) and she wants someone who is at least 24. being a student is fine, but she wants 24 or older. so do i lie and say im 24 to get my foot in the door and then tell her the truth later (if you really get along with someone, would that 3 extra years really make a difference if they're still the same person?) or do i just go with 21 and risk not even getting a response because im too young?? im thinking about going with being 24.
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    Just go. Tickets can't be more than 20 bucks. They are really low. Check it out. It also helps that their GM, or I think assistant GM is Ron Hextall, one of my favorite goaltenders. He played for the Philadelphia Flyers, first goalie ever to score a goal.
    booo Hextall.


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    Old 10-02-2009, 11:37 AM   #3071
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    so the other day i accidentally hit the personals tab on my yahoo toolbar (i don't even know why i have this) and i decided while i'm there i'd see if by any freak chance there was someone decent (i'm not a member of this program, yet). i did actually find a really cute girl (one of like 3 on the entire site for my area) who loves sports and seems pretty good. problem is shes 25 (im 21) and she wants someone who is at least 24. being a student is fine, but she wants 24 or older. so do i lie and say im 24 to get my foot in the door and then tell her the truth later (if you really get along with someone, would that 3 extra years really make a difference if they're still the same person?) or do i just go with 21 and risk not even getting a response because im too young?? im thinking about going with being 24.
    Oh yeah, women loved being lied to, especially for something that insignificant.
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    ^ spoiler fail.
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    they may think they're in it to win it, but I'm pretty sure they're in it to be the Patriots' collective bitch.
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    Oh yeah, women loved being lied to, especially for something that insignificant.
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    but whats the difference between being 24 and a full time student and 21 and a full time student? everything else is the same. i'm still going to be a yankees fan, i'm still going to love penn state, im still not going to be a drinker.

    if i say im 21, i might not even get a reply. saying im 24 would at least give me a chance.
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    Old 10-02-2009, 11:49 AM   #3074
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    but whats the difference between being 24 and a full time student and 21 and a full time student? everything else is the same. i'm still going to be a yankees fan, i'm still going to love penn state, im still not going to be a drinker.

    if i say im 21, i might not even get a reply. saying im 24 would at least give me a chance.
    I would suggest either not mentioning your age at all or come right out and ask her why she has that age limit. Do your best to not outright lie from the get go. It's never a good way to start a relationship.
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    Things change a lot between 21 and 24.
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    Old 10-02-2009, 11:57 AM   #3076
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    I knew it would do that

    I would suggest either not mentioning your age at all or come right out and ask her why she has that age limit. Do your best to not outright lie from the get go. It's never a good way to start a relationship.

    well it kinda says right on your profile how old you are. i don't think i can not put an age.



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    Things change a lot between 21 and 24.
    such as?
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    Old 10-02-2009, 12:00 PM   #3077
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    well it kinda says right on your profile how old you are. i don't think i can not put an age.


    such as?
    There should be an option to show your age or not show your age.

    Generally speaking at 24 you would have been out of college and working in the 'real world' for at least a year. At 24 + most women see guys who are younger than them as immature (and it's usually true). If she is finished with school and already working in the professional world, that's a whole different place to be than going to school full time, and trust me, women think about that.
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    There should be an option to show your age or not show your age.

    Generally speaking at 24 you would have been out of college and working in the 'real world' for at least a year. At 24 + most women see guys who are younger than them as immature (and it's usually true). If she is finished with school and already working in the professional world, that's a whole different place to be than going to school full time, and trust me, women think about that.

    right on her profile for "ideal man" she has "full time student" listed as a possibility. if she didn't have that, then i wouldn't be trying to figure this out. i would either just go in as 21 or not at all. but she's saying being 24 and a full time student is fine. i'm already a full time student (senior), so whats the difference if i say im 24 or 21? i'm still the same person. its not like im lying about everything else too.
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    Troof.

    What did you decide to do about the wedding?

    Reception. Sounds like a great plan now after considering all the factors. The wedding is at 1:00pm, the reception is by the Summerfest Grounds in Milwaukee @ 5:45pm. Dinner, and it goes until midnight. The official info the gf sent me didn't mention the bar situation....sadly.

    I think my black suit with small gray pinstripe will be in order. Right?
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    right on her profile for "ideal man" she has "full time student" listed as a possibility. if she didn't have that, then i wouldn't be trying to figure this out. i would either just go in as 21 or not at all. but she's saying being 24 and a full time student is fine. i'm already a full time student (senior), so whats the difference if i say im 24 or 21? i'm still the same person. its not like im lying about everything else too.
    Full-time student at 24 is usually a grad student though, and that's a different mentality than undergrad. I would ask her. What else about her profile makes you want to respond to her ad? I would send an initial message that grabs at your mutual interests first. And there's a saying, if you can be trusted with the little things, you can be trusted with the big things. That goes with lying as well. If you'll lie about little things, you will lie about big things. It's not a good idea, period.
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    Reception. Sounds like a great plan now after considering all the factors. The wedding is at 1:00pm, the reception is by the Summerfest Grounds in Milwaukee @ 5:45pm. Dinner, and it goes until midnight. The official info the gf sent me didn't mention the bar situation....sadly.

    I think my black suit with small gray pinstripe will be in order. Right?
    That sounds like a perfect solution!

    I like the black suite with the gray pinstripes.
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    I wouldn't even bother spoot. Being serial.
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    That sounds like a perfect solution!

    I like the black suite with the gray pinstripes.

    Yeah, I figured I like the suits so much, that I'd transform an entire suite just to look like one. Talk about bachelor pad...
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    Yeah, I figured I like the suits so much, that I'd transform an entire suite just to look like one. Talk about bachelor pad...


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    well it kinda says right on your profile how old you are. i don't think i can not put an age.





    such as?
    Hopefully, a real job and the being cut off from the paretnal teet.
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    Full-time student at 24 is usually a grad student though, and that's a different mentality than undergrad. I would ask her. What else about her profile makes you want to respond to her ad? I would send an initial message that grabs at your mutual interests first. And there's a saying, if you can be trusted with the little things, you can be trusted with the big things. That goes with lying as well. If you'll lie about little things, you will lie about big things. It's not a good idea, period.

    being a self proclaimed "sports nut" is a big thing, but she doesn't smoke, isn't religious or political (neither am i), we have some common interests. just seems like we'd be a good match, at least good enough to give it a chance and see what happens.



    and as i read over her profile again, it seems like the age thing might only be more of a guideline than a restriction.
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    being a self proclaimed "sports nut" is a big thing, but she doesn't smoke, isn't religious or political (neither am i), we have some common interests. just seems like we'd be a good match, at least good enough to give it a chance and see what happens.



    and as i read over her profile again, it seems like the age thing might only be more of a guideline than a restriction.
    I was going to ask if there was any way you could post the text from her profile so that I could have a look at what/how she phrased things.
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    Came across this article on Yahoo -- 11 Reasons Why He Dumped You, by Rich Santos.

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    * He changed
    * We weren't compatible
    * He cheated on me


    When I was little, it drove me crazy when my parents supported "no" with "because I said so." I always wanted a reason. I'm not sure if knowing why always helps, but perhaps if you know common reasons guys break up with girls, you'll at least be able to see it coming. So, here are mine:

    I Got Bored: I've read many different hypotheses on attention span, but my favorite is (Wikipedia):

    "Continuous attention span, or the amount of time a human can focus on an object without any lapse at all, is very brief and may be as short as 8 seconds. After this amount of time, it is likely that an individual's eyes will shift focus, or that a stray thought will briefly enter consciousness."

    My attention span (unless it's a football game or a song) may be worse. I know a relationship is not supposed to be exciting all the time, so getting through those flatline moments between the sparks is critical. If I start having more fun with other activities, the relationship is doomed.

    One of Us Was Too Serious: This could be as simple as she wanted to see me three times a week, and I only wanted to see her once a week. If she's flirting with other guys, flighty, or not as into it as I am, then I'm too serious for her.

    Burnout: I'm a big believer in pacing and rhythm in dating. A relationship can suffer burnout if certain milestones occur too fast: Being exclusive, sex, meeting parents. When that happens, I get that feeling the colonists must have gotten after they won the Revolutionary War: "Ok, we did it...so now what?"

    I Was Tempted To Cheat: I do my best not to cheat, so when I have recurring urges to cheat on my girlfriend, I figure it's time to break up with her. I don't need to go through with cheating; the constant urge is enough for me to end things.

    All My Friends Broke Up With Their Girlfriends: This is by far the most immature reason on this list. While my girlfriend and I are curled up on the couch watching "The Devil Wears Prada," my newly single guy friends are out shredding the karaoke waves with Journey's "Don't Stop Believin" and tearing up the town. That conflict gives me wanderlust. It's much easier when we are all in for a quiet Saturday night with the significant others.

    Divergent Lives: If someone moves to another town, or work is taking over, or other life changes are driving you apart, sometimes it's best to end it.

    Feeling Selfish: Dating is selfless because you're giving your time and yourself up to a relationship. "Me time" is necessary at some point to work on career/living situation, travel, or whatever. When I'm in a "selfish period," it's tough to participate in a relationship.

    I "Misread" My Feelings: This is the most unfair of all the reasons. Both genders make this mistake—you get into a relationship and everything seems so great. Then, a few weeks later, you realize you got wrapped up in something for the wrong reason, dated for the sake of dating, or whatever, and you need to get out.

    My Friends Or Family Didn't Like Her: I pay close attention to friend/family opinions because they know me best, and they've earned the right to have their say. Also, friends and family may be able to see things inside the relationship that I'm too blinded to see.

    I Took Her For Granted:
    Great relationships should be easy, but there has to be some tension too—especially in the beginning. If it's too easy, there's a lack of challenge. If I feel like I could have her heart any time any place, sometimes I'll let her go. This almost always ends up coming back to haunt me later, though. I never learn.

    She Was Too Negative: All too often, I end up with the brooding, depressed, uptight type who is constantly complaining. I don't expect someone to be happy all the time, but if she makes me unhappy every time I see her, why stay with her?

    What reasons have guys used to break up with you, and which make you most angry? What reasons have caused you to break up with guys? Which reasons do you think are the most common cause of breakups- do they differ for guys and women?
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    I have no idea what this means.
    You said you might give hockey another shot. I was eluding to having another shot....of alcohol. As in, drink more. Hockey is fun when you have a good buzz on. Didn't mean to baffle
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    Old 10-04-2009, 09:31 AM   #3090
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    Re: Dating is miserable

    oh life is wonderful. every girl i develop feelings for has a boyfriend. just my luck. just have to move on as always.

    on the good side, a pretty banging girl may like me. let's see where that goes.
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