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Old 07-14-2009, 08:31 PM   #421
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Yeah, in retrospect I definitely said way too much. Dumb me.
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    yea my new girlfriend and i both have twitters, but we dont follow eachother.
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    Old 07-14-2009, 08:42 PM   #423
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    Yeah, you completely fucked yourself by freaking out about it. Trust me, I've been through enough of that shit, if they start acting weird at the beginning, which a lot of them do, be a man and stand up to them. If that doesn't work, drop them like a bad habit, and enjoy watching them pathetically grovel at your feet when they realize they can't bitch you around. It's a pretty good feeling actually.
    This mans been around the block.

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    hahaha, yea things are working out pretty well right now
    Isn't amazing what some new tang does?
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    Old 07-14-2009, 08:44 PM   #424
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    the best part is, my ex is doing awful!!!! lol
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    Old 07-14-2009, 08:48 PM   #425
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    Yeah, you completely fucked yourself by freaking out about it. Trust me, I've been through enough of that shit, if they start acting weird at the beginning, which a lot of them do, be a man and stand up to them. If that doesn't work, drop them like a bad habit, and enjoy watching them pathetically grovel at your feet when they realize they can't bitch you around. It's a pretty good feeling actually.
    Is there a gun-to-the-head smiley?
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    Old 07-14-2009, 08:54 PM   #426
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    Old 07-14-2009, 08:55 PM   #427
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    Just clear your head and prepare for Friday. No use in harping over it now.
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    Old 07-14-2009, 08:55 PM   #428
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    hahaha, yea things are working out pretty well right now
    Good for you, bro.
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    Old 07-14-2009, 08:56 PM   #429
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    Is there a gun-to-the-head smiley?
    ^Yes.

    Sorry, not to speak for him. lulz
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    Old 07-15-2009, 11:36 AM   #430
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    Just clear your head and prepare for Friday. No use in harping over it now.
    Theres not going to be a date Friday And if there is, shes using him for a free meal.
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    Old 07-15-2009, 01:53 PM   #431
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    Olive Garden. Dick in the breadstick basket.
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    Old 07-15-2009, 01:58 PM   #432
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    Theres not going to be a date Friday And if there is, shes using him for a free meal.
    This. I would cancel if I were him.
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    Old 07-15-2009, 03:10 PM   #433
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    This. I would stand her up if I were him.
    fixed
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    Old 07-15-2009, 03:45 PM   #434
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    Old 07-15-2009, 03:48 PM   #435
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    Good call
    Mind as well get a good laugh out of it
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    Old 07-15-2009, 04:27 PM   #436
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    fuck i hate olive garden
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    Old 07-15-2009, 05:29 PM   #437
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    besides, what kind of name is olive garden? don't olives grow on trees? wouldn't it be olive forest?
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    Old 07-15-2009, 07:08 PM   #438
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    besides, what kind of name is olive garden? don't olives grow on trees? wouldn't it be olive forest?
    Olive Orchard.
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    Old 07-15-2009, 09:26 PM   #439
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    Olive Garden: the Sizzler of Italian food.
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    I'm going out on a date tomorrow that I don't even want to go on really.
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    Old 07-16-2009, 07:25 PM   #441
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    I'm going out on a date tomorrow that I don't even want to go on really.
    I don't think theres ever been a date that I actally wanted to be on... but you're usually required to put in at least some effort if you want sex.
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    Old 07-16-2009, 10:27 PM   #442
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    I'm going out on a date tomorrow that I don't even want to go on really.
    Play the game brother and see how it turns out.

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    I don't think theres ever been a date that I actally wanted to be on... but you're usually required to put in at least some effort if you want sex.
    Are we talking about dates where you are first meeting or relationship dates? I have had both positive experiences where the date has gone phenomonally and I had fun. I.e. going to a ball game and having a girl who was actually interested in the game and not just boozing and smhoozing.
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    Old 07-17-2009, 05:31 AM   #443
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    Play the game brother and see how it turns out.



    Are we talking about dates where you are first meeting or relationship dates? I have had both positive experiences where the date has gone phenomonally and I had fun. I.e. going to a ball game and having a girl who was actually interested in the game and not just boozing and smhoozing.
    First dates. I've had some good ones too... the best one actually ended up being about 15 hours long, which is crazy. I still don't look forward to them though.
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    Old 07-18-2009, 05:47 AM   #444
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    alright here is the deal. things are great, meg is THE chillest girl ive ever been with. we smoke weed, and just do fun things together like watch japanese cartoons and rock climb, fishing, and we can even just sit on the deck for hours just listening to music.

    but she is in her own little world really, she never checks her phone, so i wanted to hang out with her yesterday, but she said she was hanging out with her two guys friends, pat and ray....which i should be, but am not threatened by. pat is gay i think, and ray is some trashy dude lol. that was fine...but today we were both off and i figured i would see her at some point.

    i txted her at like noon, called around 2, didnt hear back from her til about 5, she was like oh sorry didnt check my phone im picking up weed with pat, blah blah blah....then she said i think im just gonna hang out at my place tonight, i said i would love to keep you company, but i got nothin back...

    then i offered for her to come over here and chill tonight, nothing back. then i told her im going to a party and il call her tomorrow.

    im sure its no biggy and i know she likes to read and stuff, she probably just wanted to chill by herself for a night......buuuuuut there i hope shes not phasin me out!
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    Old 07-18-2009, 07:03 AM   #445
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    Don't be naive... Pat and Ray were double teaming her. It doesn't sound like this girl has any interest in you.

    Edit: Was that post a joke? I don't know the backstory

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    It wasn't a joke, and no she wasn't being double teamed
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    she wants to go visit her bro in new haven tonight, I know him, but no invite again... Maybe I
    reading to much into it... We r going to cape cod together Thursday
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    Time to back off I think. Sounds like she's feeling a little crowded by you for whatever reason. Best way to deal with it is to not dig deeper (especially not via text, leave that stuff for in person only), and flip it around. Take space for yourself.


    Don't fall down the "wait, what's she up to and why won't she answer me?" slippery slope. It compounds to a whole lotta nothing. And there's a tendency to keep asking more when you get half-answers. So just take time off for yourself and wait for her to get back to you.
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    Old 07-18-2009, 12:51 PM   #449
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    its just been 3 days since ive got to see her, and im not sure how to take it
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    That girl cancelled on me yesterday!!

    So I got out and got shit-faced with my friends! This is a celebration!! (see my got a new job thread! )
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