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Old 06-12-2009, 01:30 PM   #91
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Just don't date a girl you meet at the bar. Trust me. It's got bad news written all over it.
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    Yes indeedy. She failed miserably.



    Eh, this may or may not be the case. You're probably the type that likes to be friends/know the person well before dating them.

    My issue is when guys talk to me, I generally say "who the fuck is this hipster/douche?" to my friends as though he's not standing right next to me. Not good.
    Become a dyke and get it over with.
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    Just don't date a girl you meet at the bar. Trust me. It's got bad news written all over it.
    You also never date the girl from the local music scene that you met on the local music scene internet message board.
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    Old 06-12-2009, 01:40 PM   #94
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    You also never date the girl from the local music scene that you met on the local music scene internet message board.
    How about never dating a girl you met on the Internet?

    Weird, weird chicks.
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    How about never dating a girl you met on the Internet?

    Weird, weird chicks.
    Depends where on the internet you meet her I think
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    I'm convinced I don't know how to pick up women.

    My last couple serious girlfriends have all been part of the social circles that I was in. I don't have a social circle anymore, at least in this town.

    I need to get out and do stuff...
    well the only friends you add on ants are females...so maybe it's time to meet real females
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    Become a dyke and get it over with.
    Sadly, I like the penis too much. Oh, and I hate bitches. I lose.
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    Old 06-12-2009, 01:48 PM   #98
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    How about never dating a girl you met on the Internet?

    Weird, weird chicks.
    what the hell, you were perfectly fine making out with me when you were lonely. up yours!
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    Old 06-12-2009, 01:51 PM   #99
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    what the hell, you were perfectly fine making out with me when you were lonely. up yours!
    Oh, stop fantasizing.

    I even have a girlfriend now. FML.
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    well the only friends you add on ants are females...so maybe it's time to meet real females
    What is this supposed to mean? I am real.
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    Old 06-12-2009, 01:55 PM   #101
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    Oh, stop fantasizing.

    I even have a girlfriend now. FML.
    Wait, was that even you, Alex? Hmmm maybe it wasn't you that I'm thinking about.....

    you do? who is she? whats her name? Is she cool? Is she from Glen Burnie? Dundalk?
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    What is this supposed to mean? I am real.
    Lee, no need to hide any more. I guess we can reveal finally that we are part of elaborate e-prank. We are just bots. Femme bots.
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    lets mate
    excuse me?
    lets go on a date, you know, kick it
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    Lee, no need to hide any more. I guess we can reveal finally that we are part of elaborate e-prank. We are just bots. Femme bots.
    I always knew it!
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    Old 06-12-2009, 02:27 PM   #105
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    Lee, no need to hide any more. I guess we can reveal finally that we are part of elaborate e-prank. We are just bots. Femme bots.
    Fine. I demand someone program me a bigger set of tits, though. ( . )( . )
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    Fine. I demand someone program me a bigger set of tits, though. ( . )( . )
    Oh I will take some of those as well.
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    Fine. I demand someone program me a bigger set of tits, though. ( . )( . )
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    Oh I will take some of those as well.
    Spend some time at McDonalds and you'll get an upgrade.
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    Ahh hell, I need a change. Give me some too.
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    Let me start this by saying that I have been with my girlfriend for 2 and a half years and we are very happy together.

    Last night, I went to a charity mixer. Basically, it was a bunch of people in their mid to upper 20s trying to raise money for a worthy cause. I went with my friend Seth and he's single so I agreed to be his wingman. This was not a good idea.

    This was like walking into the lion's den. Every girl there was SO husband-crazy, it was insane. All they could talk about was finding the right guy to settle down with and start a family. Obviously this wasn't the night my buddy hoped for. Sure, he's down to date, but I'm pretty sure he didnt expect to find his future wife there.

    When I was single and around 25 years old, I became a serial dater. I would go on at least 1 date a week. It was fun in the beginning but turned out to be one of the most annoying things in the world.

    Is dating this hard everywhere else? Are people so desperate to find a mate by the age of 30? It was just a real eye-opening experience last night. Thank god I have a gf!
    I find dating difficult. I'm almost 33. I can understand the thoughts that drive the behavior, but they should probably hold themselves back a little.

    Furthermore, I have no problem with a girl stating that she's only interested in a serious relationship up front. To me that shows that she knows what she wants and doesn't want to bullshit around. Maybe because I'm a little older, but that sounds pretty good. I don't want to dick around with some idiotic girl either.
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    Spend some time at McDonalds and you'll get an upgrade.
    Super size me, baby.
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    This man speaks the truth.
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    I find dating difficult. I'm almost 33. I can understand the thoughts that drive the behavior, but they should probably hold themselves back a little.

    Furthermore, I have no problem with a girl stating that she's only interested in a serious relationship up front. To me that shows that she knows what she wants and doesn't want to bullshit around. Maybe because I'm a little older, but that sounds pretty good. I don't want to dick around with some idiotic girl either.
    Or a girl that doesn't share her steak!
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    lets mate
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    lets go on a date, you know, kick it
    Ah, I like to break a mental sweat as well.
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    Or a girl that doesn't share her steak!
    Joey doesn't share food!!!


    Sorry. It's the first thing that came to mind.
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    Sorry. It's the first thing that came to mind.
    hahahaha I love Friends.

    Roger is a fan of eating all steak in site, especially if it has yummy marinade from Casa Funktabulous.
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    So I'm somehow juggling talking to 6 different girls right now. I figure since I'm just in that preliminary email/phone call stage I might as well play the percentages. Just talked to one girl who told me to call her right? So I do, and she's driving home and the conversation was nonexistent. One word answer after one word answer. And I was coming up with good, open ended questions. I even tell a story about getting pulled over hoping she'll open up a bit, and nothing. Then she says her phone's about to die and she'll talk to me later. Wtf? Why'd you text me to call you?
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    Old 06-13-2009, 12:10 AM   #119
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    On a different front, girl is texting me to go out with her in kenosha tomorrow night. Just first talked to her today on p.o.f. She emailed me saying i'm cute, i quickly find out her bf of 2 months broke up with her two days ago so she's def still upset about that, and before you know it she's hopping on her webcam in front of me. Well, she's out at a bar now texting me to go out with her tomorrow.

    So lol, what do I do in this situation? She's clearly emotionally vulnerable. Should I care?

    We're talking like no get to know each other stage at all...and she wants to go out and drink with me. Clearly a rebound and get-her-mind-off-ex situation. Never dealt with one though, so not sure if I should just go with it or 10 foot pole it.
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    So I'm somehow juggling talking to 6 different girls right now. I figure since I'm just in that preliminary email/phone call stage I might as well play the percentages. Just talked to one girl who told me to call her right? So I do, and she's driving home and the conversation was nonexistent. One word answer after one word answer. And I was coming up with good, open ended questions. I even tell a story about getting pulled over hoping she'll open up a bit, and nothing. Then she says her phone's about to die and she'll talk to me later. Wtf? Why'd you text me to call you?
    haha....girl did that to me a few weeks ago. i stopped talking to her after like 2 days. one word answers are lame.
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