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Old 08-29-2019, 06:59 AM   #51361
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Yeah, you can't fervently defend butt sex on date one for weeks and then go all eye rolly on us.
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    Dude, you are the butt sex guy in this thread. No need to get all rolleyes-y on us
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    Yeah, you can't fervently defend butt sex on date one for weeks and then go all eye rolly on us.
    i defend butt sex on date one for longer than weeks. i'm 30 now. i don't butt-stuff-on-date-one-and-tell since maturing.


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    Old 09-11-2019, 05:46 PM   #51363
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    Forgot how exhausting bumble and hinge are. Similar conversation with 20 girls simultaneously. Fucking stupid. I hate this. This is miserable. Wish my ex hadn’t turned out to be a dud.
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    Forgot how exhausting bumble and hinge are. Similar conversation with 20 girls simultaneously. Fucking stupid. I hate this. This is miserable. Wish my ex hadn’t turned out to be a dud.
    I bumble differently.

    Once I meet someone I hide my profile. Chat with them a bit and see what’s up. Maybe we go out.

    I’ll unhide and find one more rehide. Chat. See what’s up. Go out.

    Hide. Repeat. Til I’ve got 3 I like. Two on text one on the app.

    They can see when you hide and unhide.

    One falls off, or two, unhide.

    I got 9 waiting to match me. I like to go slow.
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    Old 09-11-2019, 06:26 PM   #51365
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    I bumble differently.

    Once I meet someone I hide my profile. Chat with them a bit and see what’s up. Maybe we go out.

    I’ll unhide and find one more rehide. Chat. See what’s up. Go out.

    Hide. Repeat. Til I’ve got 3 I like. Two on text one on the app.

    They can see when you hide and unhide.

    One falls off, or two, unhide.

    I got 9 waiting to match me. I like to go slow.


    What???!!!!!
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    Old 09-11-2019, 06:34 PM   #51366
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    I bumble differently.

    Once I meet someone I hide my profile. Chat with them a bit and see what’s up. Maybe we go out.

    I’ll unhide and find one more rehide. Chat. See what’s up. Go out.

    Hide. Repeat. Til I’ve got 3 I like. Two on text one on the app.

    They can see when you hide and unhide.

    One falls off, or two, unhide.

    I got 9 waiting to match me. I like to go slow.
    You sure do hide a lot.
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    Old 09-11-2019, 06:34 PM   #51367
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    What???!!!!!
    What didn’t I explain well?
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    Old 09-11-2019, 06:53 PM   #51368
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    I went on a date today that was just ok. Probably not going to go on a second date. Just nothing in common really.
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    Old 09-11-2019, 06:58 PM   #51369
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    I went on a date today that was just ok. Probably not going to go on a second date. Just nothing in common really.
    She must not be hot...or you’d be going on second date.
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    Old 09-11-2019, 07:05 PM   #51370
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    She must not be hot...or you’d be going on second date.
    Idk probably not going on a second date.
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    Old 09-12-2019, 08:50 AM   #51371
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    I went on a date today that was just ok. Probably not going to go on a second date. Just nothing in common really.
    Nothing in common?

    Both humans, both looking for someone...

    Did you look her in the eye, take her hand, and tell her how soft her skin was T?
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    Old 09-12-2019, 08:52 AM   #51372
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    Nothing in common?

    Both humans, both looking for someone...

    Did you look her in the eye, take her hand, and tell her how soft her skin was T?
    Lol no...
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    Old 09-12-2019, 09:04 AM   #51373
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    Lol no...
    First, congrats on getting the date.

    Second, why give up so quick? Unless she is breaking off contact why not stay the game?

    And mix it up. Be bold, be confident, tell her nice things, make her feel good, initiate some touch and physical contact.
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    Old 09-12-2019, 09:10 AM   #51374
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    First, congrats on getting the date.

    Second, why give up so quick? Unless she is breaking off contact why not stay the game?

    And mix it up. Be bold, be confident, tell her nice things, make her feel good, initiate some touch and physical contact.
    Thanks climb

    I’m just not interested in her all that much is the bottom line.
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    Old 09-12-2019, 09:13 AM   #51375
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    Thanks climb

    I’m just not interested in her all that much is the bottom line.
    Alright man, you gotta make that call.

    Curious, what date did you plan?
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    Old 09-12-2019, 09:58 AM   #51376
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    Alright man, you gotta make that call.

    Curious, what date did you plan?
    Sushi date
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    Old 09-12-2019, 11:04 AM   #51377
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    i hope you like sushi cause i can sashi-me in your bed later
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    Old 09-12-2019, 12:10 PM   #51378
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    Nothing in common?

    Both humans, both looking for someone...

    Did you look her in the eye, take her hand, and tell her how soft her skin was T?
    Do you want her to think he's a serial killer?
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    Old 09-12-2019, 12:13 PM   #51379
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    Do you want her to think he's a serial killer?


    It’s all in the delivery.
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    Old 09-12-2019, 12:45 PM   #51380
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    it puts the lotion on it's skin
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    Old 09-12-2019, 01:07 PM   #51381
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    I'm on an online thing, don't really care about it or dating yet, but it's amazing to me what women think is attractive. I'm not going to date you if you present yourself as a whore taking selfies in a bathroom.
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    I'm on an online thing, don't really care about it or dating yet, but it's amazing to me what women think is attractive. I'm not going to date you if you present yourself as a whore taking selfies in a bathroom.
    Ugh that’s the worst. Also hate the Snapchat filters some girls use like little Hart’s or whatever.

    If you haven’t already try hinge. You can place yourself wherever in the world. Great way to kill time.
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    Old 09-12-2019, 06:33 PM   #51383
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    I'm on an online thing, don't really care about it or dating yet, but it's amazing to me what women think is attractive. I'm not going to date you if you present yourself as a whore taking selfies in a bathroom.
    Who said you have to date them?
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    Old 09-12-2019, 06:48 PM   #51384
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    Who said you have to date them?
    If you mean just sex that's not what I'm looking for
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    Old 09-12-2019, 06:55 PM   #51385
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    If you mean just sex that's not what I'm looking for


    Just a joke.
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    Old 09-12-2019, 06:56 PM   #51386
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    Just a joke.

    Ha all good!
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    Hinge is the best. Planting seeds in a whole bunch of cities
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    Old 09-22-2019, 08:41 PM   #51388
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    Randomly matched with this chick from NC and we got along pretty good until she started asking questions about where I live. I’m not proud of my behavior but it’s kinda fun. Maybe JK can go out with her tho.
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    Old 09-23-2019, 07:19 AM   #51389
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    Randomly matched with this chick from NC and we got along pretty good until she started asking questions about where I live. I’m not proud of my behavior but it’s kinda fun. Maybe JK can go out with her tho.
    Why's this? Why not change if you're not proud of it?
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    Old 09-23-2019, 07:22 AM   #51390
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    I don't understand. This Hinge thing let's you match with people from anywhere?

    Why waste time doing what you're doing with no intention of meeting or forming a relationship? That's a pretty dick move and just further proves the point that you're not mature enough for a real relationship, Tyler.
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