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Old 01-07-2008, 07:04 PM   #121
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Our athletes got drug tested...always...
My senior year playing hockey there were 11 others on my team who were also seniors. Most of us smoked pot before practices and games. We finished 1st place in the regular season.
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    this is probably a stupid question but when my x girlfriend and i were together we had sex during the for like 5 or 6 motnhs and she would not have her period for like 2 or 3 months because she plays soccer a ton? so why does that have anything to do with it? and does that mean she can't get pregnant during that time?
    no, she can still get pregnant....extreme exercise causes a girl's body to use it's resources to keep it going and doesnt have any extra to allow her to ovulate...happens to gymnasts a lot...but you never know when she WILL ovulate therefore, she can still get pregnant......WRAP IT UP or have her go on the pill.
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    this is probably a stupid question but when my x girlfriend and i were together we had sex during the for like 5 or 6 motnhs and she would not have her period for like 2 or 3 months because she plays soccer a ton? so why does that have anything to do with it? and does that mean she can't get pregnant during that time?
    Questions like this are exactly why 15 year olds shouldn't be having sex.
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    Old 01-07-2008, 07:05 PM   #124
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    The point is not whether it's for pleasure or not, but does it make sense, and at 15 it makes plenty of sense for someone to be drinking or smoking. It's a social thing at that age and we all know how it big a factor social acceptance is in high school whether yo subscribed to it or not. I started drinking that age for that reason alone. I didn't necessarily enjoy it and I definitey didn't abuse it, but it was a social thing and I wanted to be accepted just like the rest of my friends wanted the same.
    See I don't think that's true. You drink and smoke because you want to and most people can gain social acceptance without having to drink or smoke...It's called a personality...My friends liked me for my personality
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    Old 01-07-2008, 07:05 PM   #125
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    Our athletes got drug tested...always...
    Weird, I've never gotten drug tested for a team. And I've never heard of a school or sports team doing it around here. Which is actually kind of surprising, now that I think about it, because I play in what is considered by alot in the east coast to be the best all around athletic league in the country, so you would think that they would test for substances here
    ...hm kinda interesting
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    Old 01-07-2008, 07:07 PM   #126
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    My senior year playing hockey there were 11 others on my team who were also seniors. Most of us smoked pot before practices and games. We finished 1st place in the regular season.
    I knew this...I've heard these from you on numerous occasions....my hockey players wouldn't have passed drug tests either...they just avoided suspicion...but also, coach and I stuck up for them to the athletic director!

    I've pulled my boys out of strange situations...I've carried them puking up the hill at SPAC on many days...
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    But a 15 year old isn't going to get game for years to come, and he isn't going to know how to relate to women for years to come.
    And apparently girls his age are willing to get drunk and take their clothes off.
    You'd be surprised. At 15, I knew some guys that had some serious game. But they were also my best buddies so I just laughed at them. But they had my girlfriends (who were by no means floozies or sluts) melting like chocolate in their hands
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    Old 01-07-2008, 07:08 PM   #128
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    It has to do with the way her hormones are. I can skip for a month or two because of stress and other situations.



    She can get pregnant at all times. You have no idea when an egg will drop. You could release one or more at the same time and one could be in the tube while she is bleeding and it could get fertilized. The only 100% way to not get pregnant is abstinence.

    I have this discussion with my reading buddy from elementary school like daily. (she is a freshman and scares the hell out of me)
    how old are you by the way? and thanks.
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    Old 01-07-2008, 07:08 PM   #129
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    Questions like this are exactly why 15 year olds shouldn't be having sex.
    I'm going to agree, but if they don't know, they are still going to do it...THIS IS WHY ABSTINENCE ONLY EDUCATION DOES NOT WORK!
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    Old 01-07-2008, 07:09 PM   #130
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    how old are you by the way? and thanks.
    I'm 20. Does my age factor in to this somehow?
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    no, she can still get pregnant....extreme exercise causes a girl's body to use it's resources to keep it going and doesnt have any extra to allow her to ovulate...happens to gymnasts a lot...but you never know when she WILL ovulate therefore, she can still get pregnant......WRAP IT UP or have her go on the pill.
    i no longer see her haha. so don't worry.

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    Questions like this are exactly why 15 year olds shouldn't be having sex.
    i'm not 15. and i mean, i knew she could get pregnant, i kind of meant is there a less of a chance that she would get pregnant if her cycles are skipped.
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    less of a chance is still a bigggg chance....especially if she is irregular.
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    Old 01-07-2008, 07:11 PM   #134
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    See I don't think that's true. You drink and smoke because you want to and most people can gain social acceptance without having to drink or smoke...It's called a personality...My friends liked me for my personality

    I believe you, but I think that your situation is not the most common situation in high school. I don't agree with people starting to drink at that age due to the way in which people engage in it then, but I understand (not agree with, just understand) the reasons why people would want to and I think it makes sense in that context. I think your situation was probably a much better one to be in though.
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    Theres gotta be a hot young teacher that would be willing to have a go-round with you.
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    Old 01-07-2008, 07:12 PM   #136
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    I'm 20. Does my age factor in to this somehow?
    no just curious how far out of high school you are.
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    Old 01-07-2008, 07:13 PM   #137
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    i no longer see her haha. so don't worry.



    i'm not 15. and i mean, i knew she could get pregnant, i kind of meant is there a less of a chance that she would get pregnant if her cycles are skipped.
    It's a very common misconception. Always always always use a condom if not to protect her from pregnancy, but to protect yourself.

    If you need anymore advice, or have questions, feel free to IM me, I field these questions often. I like being the one that the kids I babysat come to for answers. (It does scare me a little bit but again, I've known these people for years)
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    how old are you by the way? and thanks.
    i dont want to sound like an ass hole, and im not going to riducule you for it. but how old are you? in some posts it seems like your an upperclassmen in highschool, other it sounds like you are olderish?
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    i no longer see her haha. so don't worry.



    i'm not 15. and i mean, i knew she could get pregnant, i kind of meant is there a less of a chance that she would get pregnant if her cycles are skipped.

    You're what? 16? Big difference.

    And I agree about the abstince only education. Kids def. need to be taught to get their facts straight before going at it like rabbits.
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    less of a chance is still a bigggg chance....especially if she is irregular.
    we always used a condom, but even then, being 16, it stressed me out because of her being irregular.
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    less of a chance is still a bigggg chance....especially if she is irregular.
    Irregular = more dangerous....
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    Theres gotta be a hot young teacher that would be willing to have a go-round with you.
    OH goodness....My military boy friends had sex with their teacher in high school.

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    Girls with irregular periods are always the ones that sit on the toliet one day to take a pee and find a kid in the bowl when they get up.
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    no just curious how far out of high school you are.
    I graduated in 06.

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    Girls with irregular periods are always the ones that sit on the toliet one day to take a pee and find a kid in the bowl when they get up.
    haha in that case, i'm glad we broke up. I'M NOT READY TO BE A DAD
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    OH goodness....My military boy friends had sex with their teacher in high school.

    http://www.artiefishill.com/media/bethmasterii.htm
    seems like it happens a lot these days.
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    we always used a condom, but even then, being 16, it stressed me out because of her being irregular.
    It always will....
    It's always in the back of your mind that you could get someone pregnant or you could be pregnant (girls). It's never ever ever going to go away. Even my more sexually active male friends (not naming names) can admit that they still get scared about getting a chick pregnant.

    Even if you are trying to get pregnant, you don't know until after you are...

    The only way to know is to be sterile.
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    Girls with irregular periods are always the ones that sit on the toliet one day to take a pee and find a kid in the bowl when they get up.
    Yeah, I'm going to say No

    Only the completely stupid ones are like that...

    Personally I'm the first way to take the damn pregnancy test so I know I'm not pregnant. I'd much rather see the negative then pray for my period to come.
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    Girls with irregular periods are always the ones that sit on the toliet one day to take a pee and find a kid in the bowl when they get up.
    No one knew of my neice's existence til half way through Shirl's pregnancy when she hurt her back at work and went to the hospital. She's a large girl, obesity leads to fertility problems and all but also you get used to having weird periods and don't think you're pregnant, next thing you know you're half way through your pregnancy and still on the pill.
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