Re: What made you happy today?
My wife called me 5 years ago when we were dating and said she wanted to quit her job at a scummy sales company so she could go back to school and get her Masters to become a Speech Language Pathologist. She took a year and studied for the GRE and took it twice, maybe even three times, and did not do very well. This limited her chances at getting into a grad program as this is a very competitive field. But she didn't give up. She applied to a handful of schools and was denied by all but one. Cleveland State University. I grew up in OH and lived there for 23 years and had no idea that school even existed. With 2 months to finish things up for our wedding in Summer 2014, I found a job in Cleveland that barely paid me enough to take care of the two of us. I found us a place to live, and almost two weeks after we got back from our honeymoon we packed up and moved to Cleveland. To say the last couple of years living on one income, moving back to New England, constant uphill battles with her program was difficult is an understatement. She worked so hard from day 1, and she didn't stop. Late nights studying for finals while nursing the flu followed by early mornings to continue studying, 16 hour days split between course work and externships, the list goes on. She never quit. Even when she wanted to. Then she had the choice to either do a group project, or research, write and present a thesis. Almost everyone chooses a group project. It's easier and you can do it a lot quicker with less stress than a thesis. But my wife? She decided to challenge herself and go for the thesis. To summarize the thesis in one word...HELL. She had to go an extra semester (and always knew she would) because of a class she had to take earlier on. But the goal was to have it done by the end of her summer semester. She almost crumbled and broke down back in July when she found out that she would not be able to complete it in time to complete the summer semester. We worked through it and she picked herself back up.
I just got off the phone with her about an hour ago and she just finished defending her thesis in front of the thesis committee in Cleveland. They accepted her thesis and said her presentation was excellent. But even better is that they said it's publishable and that further research studies could come from her analyses. I didn't know it was possible to feel so happy for another person, even after almost 10 years together and 2 1/2 years married. Pride doesn't even cover it. This has been a real uphill battle for the both of us, but seeing her complete something that was so difficult for her is just...I don't even have words. I'm ecstatic. I have the utmost respect for her and what she just accomplished. She could have taken the easy way out multiple times, but she never did. My wife...Speech Language Pathologist. I couldn't be happier right now. I only wish I was there with her right now. Thanks for reading if you made it all the way through yet another one of my lengthy mushy stories :-)
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